You are on a date....or you've met someone you like for the first time, what are the best things (topics) to talk about on a date? What should or shouldn't you talk about?
1)Listen:
The most important and famous advice..especially for guys, don't just stare at her or get lost, try to concentrate and listen to what she is really saying, try to understand and react when you have the opportunity.
2)Good topics:
You don't have to talk about a certain topic or be very funny, you can just talk about anything.. Good ideas are : talking about your partner's hobbies, occupation, job, horoscopes!, family, friends and their good experiences and memories, any shared experiences.
Relax and don't think alot.
Ask questions that require a long answer, this gives the other person a chance to express their opinions/feelings and enables you to understand them well. Don't ask questions that are answered with yes or no.
3)Avoid :
-Talking about your ex, or asking your partner about her ex, at least not in the first few times, please!
-Talking about sex, it gives the wrong msg if you are a girl, and if you are a guy, it makes the girl scared (sometimes!)
-Also, avoid topics they say they don't like to talk about, don't insist.
-Interrupting her/him...let her finish.
You Don't need instructions about topics to talk about on a date, just say what comes on your mind it will be more natural, and according to the circumstances, if she/he is joking, flirting, talking about politics, just go with the flow, listen and talk back....
You don't have to talk continuously, take a walk, play a game, have a drink, have dinner, dance...you don't have to force yourself to talk..
Brief silence moments are okay too...
What do you think? what are the most topics you talk about?
Please share your opinion here :)
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